Hijab & Self-Doubt: How to Stay Strong Despite Criticism

Wearing the hijab for the first time is a mix of emotions—excitement, fear, and a thousand ‘What will people say?’ thoughts running through your mind. Trust me, I know. The stares, the whispers, the unsolicited opinions—suddenly, everyone has something to say about your decision.

People assume you’ve ‘changed,’ that you’re ‘too religious now,’ or worse, that you’re being forced. But the truth? This is your choice. And while it’s not always easy, it’s one of the most empowering decisions you’ll ever make.

If you’re struggling with your hijab journey, you’re not alone. Let’s talk about the challenges, why we wear it, and how to stand strong despite the judgment.Right ???

1️⃣ The Criticism & Judgment

“Why are you covering yourself?” “You looked better before.” Sound familiar? Unfortunately, many of us get comments like this. People assume we’re oppressed, or that we’ve ‘lost ourselves.’ But in reality, we’ve just found something even more meaningful—our faith.

2️⃣ Feeling Out of Place

At first, hijab can feel uncomfortable, not just physically but socially. You might wonder if you still fit in with your old friends, or if people see you differently now. But here’s the thing: true confidence isn’t about blending in, it’s about standing strong in what you believe in.

3️⃣ Doubting Yourself

There will be days when you wonder, "Did I make the right choice?" Shaytan will whisper doubts, and society will make you question yourself. But remember: Allah wouldn’t command something that isn’t for your ultimate good.

📖 Why Do We Wear the Hijab? (Islamic Perspective)

The hijab isn’t just a piece of fabric—it’s a powerful act of worship. Here are 3 key reasons why we wear it:

💎 1. It’s a Command from Allah
Allah has made it clear that modesty is part of our deen:

“O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and not be abused.” (Surah Al-Ahzab 33:59)

💎 2. It’s a Form of Protection

The hijab is not about oppression; it’s about dignity. It shields us from unwanted attention and reminds the world that we are more than just our looks. 

It teaches people to respect us for who we are rather than how we dress.

💎 3. It’s an Honor to Be Recognized as a Muslim Woman

Wearing hijab connects us to millions of strong Muslim women around the world.

It’s a badge of honor—a reminder that we are part of something bigger than ourselves. 

Question: How do you feel when you meet another beautiful hijabi outside? You know what I’m talking about right? I can’t describe it but it’s an A M A Z I N G feeling!

🌸 Final Thoughts: You Are Not Alone

If you’re struggling with hijab, know that you are not alone. Every hijabi has had her moments of doubt, but the beauty of this journey is that it brings you closer to Allah.

You don’t have to be ‘perfect’ to wear hijab. Start where you are, and let Allah guide your heart.

And if you ever feel alone in this journey, just remember: the Prophet (PBUH) promised that for every difficulty we endure for the sake of Allah, there is a reward waiting for us. 🤍

💬 Have you faced struggles in your hijab journey? Let’s talk in the comments!